Not "pillage". Dangerous situations. I somehow doubt Dark Ages Europe is more fun with Plows and Potatoes style games than any other setting.You damn well should. So, your premise was "the only stories worth telling about the Norse involve pillage". OK, I underestimated your stupidity.
And deal with the relatively limited rights and freedoms of one.Not going with the more retarded version of your premise: don't be the majority. Play a woman.
"Its not absent entirely."=/= "common enough there's no surprise in people having it."You just agreed a definition was legitimate and proceeded to discard it. Congratulations.
Joe Average Viking is in a situation where the need to defend himself is gonig to come up on a not regular basis for one reason or another. Not so for a merchant of Byzantium.And so? You just nailed for me that the exact same happens in Constantinople, only less often. And I saw the same in a school this week.
See "I got through life without any violent thigns ever happening." being a little too improbable to count on.See "legitimate alternate definition discarded".
The premise that Vikings are in a culture where knowing how to fight is something there are very few playable adventurer types who would not be at least basically familiar with is perfectly nonretarded.How about actually stating your premises (which you didn't by own admission)? Having premises less retarded helps as well.
No one said the others didn't, and the point is that while in our world, knowing how to fight is "not necessary for survival", this is one where it pretty much is, some places being particularly good examples of that.Like the other people didn't go to war, and like the non-violence of the modern (rich) world's up for comparison.
Northumbrians did not regularly go raiding parties against Denmark. The reverse is not entirely true...but it is much more common than Northumbrians looting Danish lands.
So, growing up a Viking is going to promote certain skills, underdevelop certain skills and strongly discourage or encourage certain things.
One might resist cultural influence, but being completely unlike its norms would be strange.
And "So I'm a pariah. Oh well." is not an attitude that can be taken safely in all places and eras.

